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Staff Psychiatrist at PsychPlus
May 22, 2025
Do you find yourself constantly saying yes, even when you’re overwhelmed? Do you avoid conflict at all costs, or feel crushed by even the slightest hint of disapproval? If so, you’re not alone—and it might be more than just a “nice” personality trait.
Many people struggle with people-pleasing, but for individuals with ADHD, it often runs deeper. It’s not just about being agreeable—it’s about avoiding the emotional pain of feeling rejected, criticized, or like a burden.
This emotional intensity is commonly tied to something called Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD). While it’s not a formal diagnosis, RSD is a widely recognized experience among people with ADHD. It refers to the overwhelming fear of rejection or failure, and the intense emotional response that follows—even when the threat is imagined.
In this blog, we’ll explore how ADHD can make people more prone to approval-seeking behavior, why emotional sensitivity plays such a big role, and how healing involves building self-worth from within—not just from praise.
Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, or RSD, is a term used to describe the intense emotional pain that comes from perceived or actual rejection, criticism, or failure. For people with ADHD, these emotional reactions can feel overwhelming—far beyond what most would consider a typical response.
Though RSD isn’t formally recognized in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), it’s a widely reported and relatable experience, especially among adults with ADHD. Many describe it as a sudden wave of shame, anxiety, or guilt—even in situations where no real harm was done.
It can look like:
– Over-apologizing for minor mistakes
– Avoiding any situation where failure is possible
– Replaying conversations and obsessing over how others might perceive them
– Feeling devastated by constructive feedback or neutral expressions
To avoid this emotional discomfort, many people with RSD begin to people-please—saying yes to everything, avoiding conflict, and trying to manage how others feel in order to feel safe themselves.
But this coping strategy, while understandable, often leads to burnout, resentment, and disconnection from one’s own needs. And that’s where deeper healing begins.
People with ADHD often experience the world more intensely—emotionally, mentally, and socially. One key reason for this is the way ADHD affects emotional regulation. The brain struggles to manage reactions proportionally, making rejection, criticism, or failure feel sharper and more personal.
This heightened sensitivity is made even more difficult by impulsivity, which can lead to quick emotional responses and overcorrection, like apologizing excessively or overcompensating to please others.
Then there’s the lived experience of growing up with ADHD. Many children and teens with ADHD are constantly told they’re too loud, too forgetful, too scattered—or simply “not trying hard enough.” Over time, this kind of chronic invalidation shapes how a person sees themselves.
To avoid further criticism or rejection, many adults with ADHD develop people-pleasing behaviors as a form of self-protection. Saying yes, avoiding confrontation, or trying to keep everyone happy becomes a survival strategy—not just a personality trait.
But understanding where these behaviors come from is the first step toward change. If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much” or “not enough” all at once, you’re not alone.
You can learn more about the lasting impact of ADHD beyond childhood in our blog Understanding Adult ADHD: Beyond Childhood Symptoms.
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If you’ve ever felt like you’ve tried everything for your depression—every pill, every dose change, every “give it a few more weeks”—only to feel like nothing’s working, you’re not alone.
Maybe you’ve had this conversation before:
“Let’s try switching your medication.”
You nod. You want to feel better. But deep down, you’re already exhausted at the thought of starting over—again.
That’s the rollercoaster many people face when struggling with what’s known as treatment-resistant depression (TRD). It’s a term used when someone doesn’t respond to at least two different antidepressants taken at adequate doses and durations. But what that really means, in human terms, is you’re doing everything right, and it still feels like nothing’s changing. That’s frustrating. It’s disheartening. And it’s okay to say that out loud.
But here’s the good news: treatment-resistant doesn’t mean hope-resistant. It just means your brain might need something beyond the typical medication route—and those options do exist.
In this blog, we’re going to talk about those next steps. From TMS therapy to Spravato, we’ll explore innovative approaches that are changing the game for people with TRD. If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start moving forward, keep reading.
And remember, you’re not doing this alone. At PsychPlus, we’re here to help you navigate this journey—no judgment, just support.
Let’s break it down: treatment-resistant depression (TRD) happens when you’ve tried two or more antidepressants—at the right dose, for the right amount of time—and still don’t feel better.
You’re doing what you’re supposed to. But the sadness, the fog, the lack of motivation—it just doesn’t lift.
And it’s not because you’re doing anything wrong.
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but a few common reasons include:
And you’re not alone in this. According to the National Institutes of Health, about 1 in 3 people with depression don’t get better with standard medication. That’s a lot of people quietly struggling, just like you.
💡 Want to understand more about depression and how it shows up in daily life? Check out our Depression 101 guide for a simple, supportive breakdown.
Before jumping into new treatments, it’s important to take a step back and look at the full picture. Sometimes, what feels like treatment-resistant depression isn’t just about the meds—it could be about something that’s been missed or overlooked.
TRD can sometimes be a sign that the original diagnosis wasn’t quite right. For instance, consider the following possibilities:
Your provider may suggest blood work, mental health screenings, or a full medication review. This isn’t to start over from scratch—it’s to make sure you’re on the right track.
We know—it’s not always easy. But the basics matter more than we often realize:
Sometimes it’s not about adding more medication—it’s about adjusting the approach. Think of it like rebalancing rather than restarting.
If you’re not sure where to begin, browsing through our Blog Page can help spark ideas and offer small changes that lead to big improvements.
If medications haven’t worked for you, the idea of trying yet another pill can feel… exhausting. That’s where Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) comes in—a science-backed, drug-free treatment that’s offering real hope for people with treatment-resistant depression.
TMS is a non-invasive therapy that uses gentle magnetic pulses to stimulate areas of the brain involved in mood regulation—specifically, the prefrontal cortex. It’s kind of like “waking up” parts of your brain that have gone quiet during depression.
And don’t worry—it doesn’t involve shocks or sedation. You stay fully awake and alert during each session.
TMS is ideal for adults with treatment-resistant depression, especially those who:
Clinical studies have shown TMS to be highly effective, with many patients experiencing lasting relief after a full course of treatment.
A typical TMS treatment plan includes:
Many patients start noticing results by week 2 or 3—and some say it’s the first thing that has actually worked.
Curious if it’s right for you? Dive deeper into what to expect in our TMS Therapy: A Drug-Free Treatment for Depression blog post.
When you’re in the middle of a depressive episode—especially one that feels like it’s going nowhere fast—waiting weeks or months for a medication to work can feel unbearable. That’s where Spravato comes in.
Spravato is the brand name for esketamine, a nasal spray medication approved by the FDA specifically for treatment-resistant depression. It’s not your typical antidepressant. Unlike SSRIs that affect serotonin over time, Spravato works differently—and much faster.
Spravato targets the NMDA receptors in your brain—a completely different pathway than traditional meds. This unique approach helps restore synaptic connections that are often weakened during chronic depression, especially in people who haven’t responded to other treatments.
The result? Faster symptom relief —sometimes within hours or days.
Spravato is especially helpful for:
It’s not something you take home—it’s administered in a clinical setting, under professional supervision, which ensures both safety and proper monitoring.
A Spravato treatment session typically looks like this:
Some people experience mild dissociation, dizziness, or nausea—but these effects usually fade quickly and are closely monitored by the staff.
Spravato has given many people new hope—especially those who’ve felt stuck for far too long. You can explore real experiences and more clinical details in our blog, A Closer Look at Spravato: The Fast-Acting Treatment for Depression.
When depression is resistant to medication alone, it doesn’t always mean you’re out of options—it might just mean it’s time to try a new combination of care.
Studies—and real-life stories—show that pairing medication or alternatives like TMS or Spravato with psychotherapy can significantly improve outcomes. Why? Because while medications and treatments like TMS work on the brain, therapy helps with patterns, thoughts, and behaviors that fuel depression.
Everyone’s path to healing looks a little different. Some people respond well to CBT alone, while others find real change only after combining therapy with something like TMS or Spravato.
The key is personalized, ongoing care. Having a provider who checks in with your progress, adjusts your plan when needed, and genuinely listens can make all the difference.
If you’re curious about how these combinations might work for you, we’ve got more insights and resources waiting for you over on our Blog Page.
If you’ve been battling depression and nothing seems to work, we want you to hear this clearly: treatment-resistant depression does not mean you’re out of options—or hope.
Sometimes, the path forward just requires a different approach. That might be TMS, Spravato, therapy, or a personalized combination of treatments based on you—your history, your symptoms, your goals.
Reaching out to a mental health professional for a proper evaluation is one of the most important steps you can take. At PsychPlus, we specialize in helping people who’ve felt stuck and defeated finally find the care they need. We offer compassionate support, advanced treatment options, and a team that listens.
💬 Ready to explore what might work for you? Book an appointment with us today—either in-office or from the comfort of home.
We know how heavy treatment-resistant depression can feel. But we also know that healing is possible—and it’s happening every day through breakthroughs like TMS and Spravato.
If you’re reading this, you’ve already taken a powerful step: you’re looking for answers. Now take the next one. Reach out. Ask questions. Try something new.
Because even when things feel dark, you’re not alone—and there are more ways forward than you might think.
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